I. Disdain for Fakery
- Strong dislike for being fake and feeling awkward around it.
- Recently read How to Win Friends and Influence People via Headway.
- Book’s philosophy: Be agreeable and never make anyone feel bad.
- Struggles with this approach—naturally blunt and direct.
- Observes kindness being used manipulatively as flattery.
Scripture:
- “Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good.” (Romans 12:9)
- “The Lord detests lying lips, but He delights in people who are trustworthy.” (Proverbs 12:22)
- “Whoever flatters his neighbor is spreading a net for his feet.” (Proverbs 29:5)
II. Frustration with Superficial Happiness
- Dislikes being asked to smile for pictures.
- Rejects the notion that constant smiling equals happiness.
- Recognizes that comedians, despite bringing joy, often battle hardship.
- Values joy over happiness—sees joy as defiance against despair.
- Advocates for a balanced, realistic view of life, avoiding extremes.
Scripture:
- “Even in laughter the heart may ache, and rejoicing may end in grief.” (Proverbs 14:13)
- “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds.” (James 1:2)
- “The joy of the Lord is your strength.” (Nehemiah 8:10)
III. Commitment to Authenticity
- Turning 32 marked a commitment to being genuine.
- Feels secure, confident, and unimpressed by others’ expectations.
- Attributes confidence to knowing his identity in God.
Scripture:
- “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.”(Psalm 139:14)
- “For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ.” (Galatians 1:10)
- “So we say with confidence, ‘The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me?’”(Hebrews 13:6)
IV. Refusal to Tolerate Fakery
- Declares unwillingness to maintain relationships with fake people.
- Rejects code-switching and commits to being the same person always.
- Prioritizes honesty over others' comfort or approval.
Scripture:
- “Do not be misled: ‘Bad company corrupts good character.’” (1 Corinthians 15:33)
- “Let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No’; anything beyond this comes from the evil one.” (Matthew 5:37)
- “If anyone does not love the Lord, let that person be cursed! Come, Lord!” (1 Corinthians 16:22)
- “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” (Romans 12:18)
- “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.” (Matthew 5:9)
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